This entry is going to be mainly about climbing….with a dash of art.
But first, lies.
How often do you tell yourself that something is a certain way when in reality it isn’t? It doesn’t have to be a big thing, it could be something you think is harmless. Maybe something like: I’ve gained a few extra pounds but it’s ok because my pants fit, and no one else can really tell I’ve gained the weight. Or maybe something more like this: I can’t get to work on time because the traffic is horrible and I shouldn’t have to leave any earlier to get to work on time, it’s consuming enough time already.
These are specific examples, maybe you can think of a few more that…feel….the same way.
Sometimes in climbing, and definitely when it comes to making art, the more I lie to myself about what is really going on, the more it hurts me and the harder it makes it overall, to accomplish what I set out to do in the first place.
Itching To Climb (Ian) ©ChossyGrl
Today I was climbing at my local crag with a friend. He had led an old favorite, Itching To Climb (5.8), and left the draws up for me to lead. It was one of our warm-up climbs for the day. The last time I had climbed this, I sent it clean. Today when I stepped up to the start, I told myself, “you’ve got this, you know the climb.” In the past, the first move always shut me down. It’s a right hand cross, and very bouldery (I’m not much for bouldering these days.) I would always have someone else clip the first bolt for me. It was never something I looked forward to doing. Past couple times I’ve climbed it though, I’ve done it from the ground up, and it’s been good.
Remember what I said about telling yourself one thing, when reality can often times be something else completely? This climb is a good mirror for that I think.
Despite having sent it before, clean, I hung all over it today. Telling myself at first, I was tired, I hadn’t had a long enough warm-up, that it was hot, I didn’t have enough chalk. Everything else was responsible except….well, me.
The start move off the ground went fine. At the second bolt I realized I had taken all my mental garbage up with me, and it was getting between me and the climb. I was over thinking and sketching out, instead of just finding the awesome rests I knew were there, and breathing. So important….the breathing.
I gave my friend an earful at each bolt about what was really on my mind. It helped, purging my system so to speak, and really taking responsibility for why my climbing was crappy. But also, it was depressing…knowing I had allowed myself to take all of that energy and waste it on mental processes that hindered me.
Pictured above is my friend Ian, from last year, working the start of Itching To Climb (which is actually, a very fun climb.)
So I spent a good part of the day thinking about how all those little lies we tell ourselves actually do more harm than good. Not that they ever do good, mind you.
Making art can be affected by the same disillusionment.
If you take away all the things you’ve used to build yourself up, are you still good? Competent? Will you still have confidence?
Can you still evoke…
How honest can you be with yourself.